Is Erectile Dysfunction in Your 20s Normal?
To put it bluntly, no erectile dysfunction in your 20s isn’t normal, but it is becoming more common. Oh great! Yeah, we know. It’s not exactly the good news story you were hoping to find when you Googled, “why won’t my penis get hard?”
Let’s be honest, talking about this stuff can be a little… well… awkward. You worry your friends will find out and make fun of you, while the thought of speaking to your family makes you want to dig a hole and disappear into it. But erectile dysfunction (ED) isn’t something you should ignore.
In young men, ED is likely to be related to stress, or lifestyle choices, such as drinking and smoking too much, but occasionally it can be an early indicator that something a little more serious may be happening, so it’s important to investigate the problem.
Don’t worry, we’ll be separating fact from fiction, and breaking down the common, and sometimes uncomfortable, questions about ED by asking the experts. First off, we need to back up a little and cover the basics.
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What is erectile dysfunction?
The word erectile, like a lot of sexual health terms (we’re looking at you gonorrhea) isn’t the most pleasant sounding term, but according to WebMD, erectile dysfunction is actually quite a common condition, “erectile dysfunction happens when a man has ongoing problems getting and keeping an erection.”
They also state that as many as, “30 million Americans are afflicted on a continuing basis, and transient episodes affect nearly all adult males. But nearly all men who seek treatment find some measure of relief.”
So, as you can see, ED is not some hideous freak condition you alone are suffering. There are many guys out there just like you. ED is common and treatable.
What are the symptoms of erectile dysfunction?
Often conditions affecting the penis get lumped together, so it’s worth knowing what ED isn’t. It is not a poor sex drive or problems with ejaculation, these are separate issues. ED is purely related to erections. Below are some common symptoms of ED:
- Incomplete erections
- Flaccid erections
- Semen secretion followed by weak erections
- No early morning erections
- Hard erections in the morning with flaccid erections before sex
- Urination problems
- Pain or bruising from excessive masturbation
Basically, if you can’t maintain an erection long enough to have sex, then you have erectile dysfunction, and need to seek medical help.
It used to be thought that ED was caused by psychological issues, or was simply a part of the aging process, but today medical thinking has moved away from these ideas, realizing that the condition has a range of causes. Some common causes for ED are:
- Chronic diseases, such as heart disease, and diabetes. (Men with diabetes are two to three times more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction.)
- Lifestyle choices: Smoking, drinking, and drug use can damage blood vessels, reducing blood flow to the penis
- Medication: some over-the-counter, as well as prescription drugs, can have unexpected side effects, or clash with other medications
- Psychological: depression, stress, low self-esteem, and performance anxiety can all get in the way of achieving an erection
Erectile dysfunction in younger men
So this is the bit you’ve probably jumped ahead to, and that’s fine. We’re all busy! Here’s the main take away: erectile dysfunction in your 20s is likely caused by a psychological rather than a physical problem. You may simply be suffering from performance anxiety, and the tension you’re carrying because of this is affecting your ability to get or keep an erection.
If this is happening to you, then talking about the problem with your partner is a good idea. Let them know how you’re feeling. This will likely release the tension and make you feel a lot calmer. Communication is key. Perhaps you just need to slow down, take a little more time. Your partner may appreciate the change in pace too.
Erectile dysfunction in your 20s may also be linked to the following factors:
- Fears of rejection
- Feelings of inadequacy
Once you’ve seen a doctor, and been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction, there are a few treatment options available.
The first is more holistic and consists of good old and boring lifestyle changes. The doctor will likely advise you to cut down or quit smoking or drinking, as well as lose weight and exercise more.
Another option is drugs. Some common ones are:
- Sildenafil (ViagraTM)
- Tadalafil (CialisTM)
- Vardenafil (LevitraTM)
- Avanafil (SpedraTM)
The most famous of these is, of course, Viagra, but this can be pretty pricey, luckily there are some much cheaper generics on the market that also do the same job. Don’t be fooled into thinking that little blue pill is the only one available.
If your ED is caused by psychological problems then talking therapy could help. A therapist can walk you through what is causing you anxiety or stress when it comes to sex, or even other issues in your life. These feelings could be having a subconscious effect on your sex life, making it more difficult for you to perform, and affecting your sexual well-being.
A happy ending
As you’ve seen, erectile dysfunction in your 20s doesn’t mean there’s something badly wrong with you, or that you’re getting old before your time. ED is a perfectly treatable condition that affects millions of Americans. It may be a little embarrassing visiting the doctors, but hey, they’ve definitely seen much worse! They’re there to help you, so let them.
If you have any more awkward or embarrassing questions about sexual health, then visit our health center.
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